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Melodi PenticoSend Private Message
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17 Jul 2008 11:32 AM  

I went to my first fire class last night. This was my first experience with Hot Yoga. Yes, it is hot but I must admit I had it built up in my head that it would feel much hotter, so I was pleasantly surprised. I started strong and felt really good about how much I was accomplishing, but as the class progressed I came to realize just how much I couldn't do. There were several poses I could not do at all, but overall I could do more than I thought.

After I left the yoga room and gathered my things from the locker room I was faced with exactly the reason it took me so long to try this in the first place. There were a few ladies gossiping about others in the class. This was hard to hear. Just the thought of coming and trying this was a difficult first step. I was terrified that I would be surrounded by thin, fit, beautiful people who all thought they were better than me. So, when I heard these ladies making fun of others, even though it wasn't me, it may as well have been. So, please, keep in mind that just because the person you are talking about doesn't hear you, other people do. I was very offended by this. I am not thin or fit, but I came here seeking to better myself and it isn't easy. 

On a happier note...On my drive home I was already feeling wonderful. I was in bad need of a shower, but somehow I felt clean. And as nuts as it sounds my eye sight seemed stronger. When I woke up this morning I had less back pain than usual and though I know I am not yet any thinner, I feel taller, thinner and lighter.
 

I can't wait to get back and sweat some more! 

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30 Jul 2008 11:38 AM  

Great effort Melodi!. You will never experience a class like it again. Always know that every day is different. Enjoy the journey. Stay well.

 

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30 Jul 2008 05:05 PM  
Hi Melodi,

Have you continued to go back since your 1st experience? My first yoga class EVER was last night (FIRE) and I had a similar experience with the class. The heat was not that bad, and I thought I was starting out great, but about 1/2 hour into it I was getting very light-headed & feeling naseous. I was totally embarrassed that I had to sit out for about 15 minutes before I could stand back up. I really also thought I was going to vomit,. I was the only one in the class that had to sit down at all - UGH. But, I was determined not to leave that room! Afterward 4-5 ladies told me to keep it up because they had similar experiences at first, so that made me feel much better.

I am also not fit & trim (like most of the group) - and some of the poses are very difficult for me, as well -- but I'm trying to get there! So, I understand about being hurt by the dressing room conversation. I hope you've stuck with it - I'm gonna try!
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31 Jul 2008 08:23 AM  

I agree that hearing people talk about others is quite disconcerting, wherever you are in life.  This is something I've felt I have had to deal with a lot in the past, and it's only been over the last year I have really been able to truly focus on my own practice, stay within my own little mat and let the rest of the world/room disappear.  I have been able to do this at Sunstone more than anywhere else.  Good for you for not letting it ruin your success!  Keep it up.  I choose to believe these folks were the exception, and not the rule!


I hope to meet you in the dressing room one day and we can chat about something besides others!! I'll be wearing purple!

Namaste...

 

 

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01 Aug 2008 03:46 PM  
Hi Melodi and welcome to Sunstone Yoga.

Yoga seems to always provide learning opportunities in unexpected ways. In our experience, students who are fixated on physical appearance or view this as some sort of a competition tend to select out over time. The vast majority of our students understand (or come to learn) that such discussions are irrelevant and out of place.

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05 Aug 2008 09:00 AM  

I agree that it's best to focus on myself and learn to let other people's opinion fade into the backround.  It's challenging and difficult, but in the end worth the work.  Besides it's a lot easier than trying to change everyone else   I felt the need to add my personal experience at Sunstone and say that I have never experienced anything other than a calm, welcoming vibration and a positive energy.  I am sure I will run into negative people over time, but I wanted to share that my experience with Sunstone has been a good one. 

I applaud both newcomers for completeing your first class and staying on yor mat through the whole class.  Good for you!

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12 Aug 2008 08:18 PM  

I am so sorry about your experience!  I am thankful that I did not experice that on my first day as I had the same concerns about being surrounded by thin, fit, "beautiful" people.  But I have had nothing but overwhelming, positive, uplifting conversations with fellow students.  I do hope that you come back and give it another try. 

I have been "away" from classes for about 2 months now, but I still have close to 100 classes under my belt at just about one year in---and I can truly and honestly tell you that the people are wonderful.  I don't know the location you visited---and I imagine there are a few "gossips" everywhere---but at the North Dallas location all I have ever experienced was true compassion and uplifting warmth.  I started my classes a year ago after losing a great deal of weight (90 lbs.) and still having much to lose (I still do---I have stagnated lately!)  But I would never hesitate to go back because of other people's gossip or shallow judgments.  I hope you don't either!  Remember that yoga is an overwhelmingly personal journey---and it is those people who were gossiping who were completely missing the point. 

Give it another try!

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